Sunday, April 10, 2011

The Lines of Communication

Intuition.  We all have it.  But how do we use it?  Well, first of all we have to know how our guides and everyone else on the Other Side will try to communicate with us.  That's where a medium can help.

It's become evidently clear over the last several weeks what part of my mandate on this planet is.  As a medium, it is my role to serve as the go-between the physical and the spiritual world.  Simple as that. 

I was having coffee with a friend that was (and is) such a part of our family that she was given something of my dad's.  During coffee I explained that dad was using his wildlife to communicate.  Particularly deer.  About a week after dad passed, as mentioned in a previous blog, my dad sent a lone buck to my complex entrance, and we have never seen deer up here.  I relayed the story and let my friend know that a lone deer (in particular) was one of the easiest ways for dad to communicate.  The very next day from coffee I received a post stating that a lone deer showed up in her cul-de-sac.  It is as easy as that.

In an effort to help my loved ones understand what it's like for me to be a psychic medium, I have started making this kind of conversation normal and within everyday of my life.  Now, don't get me wrong, I don't run around saying, "Hi, I'm Donna.  I'm psychic." as my way of introducing myself.  But let's face it, psychic lingo isn't something that's talked about within normal realms of everyday conversation.  For me, talking about it helps increase my authenticity.  And by that I mean my Authentic Self.  The person I have been since birth.  So it is important for me to use the language surrounding psychic abilities and mediumship.  That said, psychic talk is starting to enter some "normalcy" through shows like "Psychic Kids" and "Psychic Investigations" and more and more psychics coming forward and increasing in popularity.  Anyways, par for my course some days, I digress.

Getting back to communcation, this particular incident really provided the proof (for me - again my frame of reference) needed that part of my role as a medium is opening the door for loved ones here to communicate with loved ones from Home.  When that line is established, and how the communications will take place, my job as facilitator is done. 

Because we were all born with intuitiveness (and there is a difference between intuition and mediumship - HUGE difference just so that you know), it stands to reason that when we are open for an experience, the means will show itself.  Such a case came with my dad and him sending a deer to let my friend know he's watching her too.  How beautiful.

An example such of this shows how easy (and quickly sometimes) the lines can be opened up.  So, it is with this in mind that I now ask something that can be a bit of a challenge, but it is a loving step for all parties involved.  Most of us never know when we are going to leave the planet.  This makes it a necessity to open up the lines of communication prior to passing.  While crossing over is hard concept to grasp and hard on the heart to talk about it.  It is a natural part of life.  If we strive to open the communication lines prior to someone passing and set up what the calling card is going to look like (Remember in the old days people used to leave calling cards to let them know they were by?), then when we leave we are given the opportunity to communicate with our loved ones left behind.

If someone has a favorite song, make it "your" song for those instances a radio is turned on for the first time, or stepping into a store to hear that song.  If someone had a favorite bird they liked to watch, then that could be it.  The signal could be anything. 

Of all the loving things, if you have already lost a loved one, you can make a request.  For instance, one of my dad's latest tricks is "F'in Perfect" by Pink.  Of all the up-to-date songs I picked it because  dad would shake his head at the pick if he were here, I adore this song and, of course, easily relate to it.  So one day while I was driving, I decided to have a conversation with dad (yes they hear) and said it'd be really funny if he could use that song as a means to communicate to.  I set it up very specifically to the point that it had to be turning a radio on and couldn't be in a line up of songs because that could be a song played at any time.  I wanted it to be specific (makes it easy for them too - not that it's hard for them) so that the timing was undeniable.  On several occasions I have turned on my car radio to the song and have walked into a store and it starts up.  Again, my frame of reference and I get that there will be those out there that go "too vague".  I'm okay with that.

With that said, I want to give an example of just how I, as a medium, work and how the Other Side communicates with me.  Blessed with all 5 clairs, I have been working with my guides to show me more in depth information so I'm not running around cold calling, and can be right on the money.

I was out for coffee last week and was sitting by myself for a moment while a friend went to get us hot water for our teas.  While my friend was up at the counter, I let myself relax into a moment of aloneness and, of course, I let my guard down (which can't happen because then I get the following scenario and really I'm just out to enjoy a coffee, not read) and the next thing I knew I was being shown a large "T" like a scrabble piece enhanced 100 times.  At that moment, I said to self, "okay, I'm not gonna settle for just a 'T' that's too vague".  I was then given the name Tony.  And I must interject here saying that I have been working on locating the direction and vicinity of the "pings" in order to figure out who it is I'm being directed to and was urged that it was coming from near the counter where my friend was talking.  More importantly, it was the lady she was talking to.

It just so happens that said individual came and joined us for coffee.  At which point (which I will not do again until I have someone sitting in front of me specifically for a reading) I turned to her and said, "This is going to sound strange, but do you know someone named Tony?".  A quizzical look came over the ladies face, I explained who I was and what I do for a living, and she confirmed that she did indeed know a Tony.  In fact, it was an aunt's boyfriend she said.  I said, "It's your mom's sister and she's passed".  To which she responded, "Yes."  I then went on to share a few more details and left it at that.

It made me realize that a prayer had been answered.  I now know I can locate who I need to, when I need to, in order to read them during workshops in large crowds.  I look forward to the day of being in front of a crowd and sharing such experiences.  I have faced my fear of  "Am I going to find the person to read in a crowd?"  I met the fear with a prayer of "Please direct me to who needs a connection with their passed loved one and let the lines of communication become extremely clear with detailed information", and it was answered with this experience.  I am eternally grateful.

How will you open up your lines of communication?

Namaste

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